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Living happily ever after needn't only be for fairy tales. Australian researchers have identified what it takes to keep a couple together, and it's a lot more than just being in love.
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A couple's age, previous relationships and even whether they smoke or not are factors that influence whether their marriage is going to last,
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according to a study by researchers from the Australian National University.
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The study, entitled "What's Love Got to Do With It", tracked nearly 2,500 couples - married or living together -
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from 2001 to 2007 to identify factors associated with those who remained together compared with those who divorced or separated.
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It found that a husband who is nine or more years older than his wife is twice as likely to get divorced, as are husbands who get married before they turn 25.
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Children also influence the longevity of a marriage or relationship, with one-fifth of couples who have kids before marriage - either from a previous relationship or in the same relationship
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- having separated compared to just nine percent of couples without children born before marriage.
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Women who want children much more than their partners are also more likely to get a divorce.
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A couple's parents also have a role to play in their own relationship, with the study showing some 16 percent of men and women
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whose parents ever separated or divorced experienced marital separation themselves compared to 10 percent for those whose parents did not separate.
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Also, partners who are on their second or third marriage are 90 percent more likely to separate than spouses who are both in their first marriage.
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Not surprisingly, money also plays a role, with up to 16 percent of respondents who indicated they were poor or where the husband - not the wife -
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was unemployed saying they had separated, compared with only nine percent of couples with healthy finances.
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And couples where one partner smokes and the other doesn't, are also more likely to have a relationship that ends in failure.
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Factors found to not significantly affect separation risk included the number and age of children born to a married couple,
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