People relate in many ways and the different types of humans let each relationship to be unique. So nobody can give any formula of how to put a stop and shuffle cards again.
A relationship needs work and time in order to succeed and sometimes love is not enough for both people, so it requires drastic action taking, which is not a simple and quick decision if you have passed a reasonable time with the other person. Sharing memories, moments and anecdotes makes it a complicated situation to face.
All of the time it is expected to end in good terms but this, unfortunately, is not always possible. Cheating, disappointment and lack of respect are just three of the reasons why a couple may start a war when breaking up. It is essential to remind yourself of the best moments of the relationship when that decision is needed and do not ever forget that talking badly about the person who shared your life with translates in gossiping against yourself.
What is meant to last has no way of avoiding its destiny and a bad or aggressive relationship is not healthy at all, so the decision, though a rough one, is required at the right time. Spending more and more time together will not assure you the success of the relationship, and worse, it may contribute to end up fighting and building unnecessary confrontations.
For your own sake, if your relationship is over, end it in the best way you can and enjoy life, there is only one, and considerably short.
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