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This lipstick cost her more than 50 dollars. It's not cheap, but it made her happy, because it was the one that she had been longing for for a long time.
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Every morning, when she puts on her makeup, everything seems brand new due to this lipstick. It feels like that the whole day is full of hope.
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Sherry has long been accustomed to rewarding herself through shopping.
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And this desire for material possession drives her to work hard.
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She feels good about this. Her life keeps getting better all because of this kind of desire.
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But her mother thinks quite differently.
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Several days ago, Sherry went back to live with her parents for a while. After her mother came to know the price of the lipstick, they had kept quarreling for almost a whole day.
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Her mother thought that it was completely immoral to spend money like this, while Sherry thought her mother was totally beyond reasoning.
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What Sherry didn't know was that this woman standing in front of her had once been a little girl who had grown up in poverty and starvation.
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That little girl could not find enough clothes to wear in winter. And those little desserts you see through the shopwindows were something from another world for her.
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That girl needed to learn how to spend every penny as if it were two so that she could survive.
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It's just natural that two people can't understand each other, even for mother and daughter, because everybody's experience is different.
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Try to be patient to the people around you. Try to get to know them. Try to stand in their shoes.
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