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Here are 10 simple things to do that will dramatically increase your chances: from wearing the right expression, to knowing what not to say,to never ever breaking a sweat.
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1.Don't be a "smiley face."Excessive smiling in a job interview is seen for what it is -- nervousness and a lack of confidence.
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A smiley-face person exudes phoniness, which will quickly be picked up by the interviewer. Instead be thoughtful and pleasant.
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2. Don't be a small-talker.Your job is to be knowledgeable about the company for which you're interviewing.
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Randomfacts about last night's episode of "Dancing with the Stars" or your favorite blog will not get you the job. Never feel you have to fill an interview with small talk.
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Find ways to talk about serious subjects related to the industry or company.Pockets of silence are better than padding an interview with randombabble.
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3.Don't sweat.You can lose a job by wearing an undershirt or simply alittle too much clothing. Sweaty palms or beads on your forehead will not impress. You are not applying to be a personal trainer.
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Sweat will be seen as a sign of weakness and nervousness. Do a practice run with your job interview out fit in front of friends. The job interviewis one place you definitely don't want to be hot.
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4. Don't be a road block.Interviewers are seeking candidates eager to take on challenging projects and jobs.
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Hesitance and a nay-saying mentality will be as visible as a red tie -- and seen as a negative.
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Practice saying "yes" to questions about your interest in tasks and work that might normally give you pause.
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5.Don't be petty.Asking the location of the lunchroom or meeting room will clue the interviewer into your lack of preparation and initiative.Prepare.
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Don'task questions about routine elements or functions of a company: where stuff is, the size of your cube, and company policy on coffee breaks.
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6.Don't be a liar.Studies show that employees lie frequently in theworkplace. Lying won't get you a job. In a job interview even a slightexaggeration is lying. Don't.
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Neverstretch your resume or embellish accomplishments. There's a differencebetween speaking with a measured confidence and engaging in BS.
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One lie can ruin your entire interview, and the skilled interviewer will spot the lie and show you the door.
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7.Don't be a bad comedian.Humor tends to be very subjective, and while itmay be tempting to lead your interview with a joke you've got to becareful about your material.
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chances are you'll be shown a polite smile and the door, regardless of your qualifications. Nobody hiring today is going to be looking for someone who's going to be finicky about their workspace.
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9. Don't be a time-waster.At every job interview, the prospective hire is given the chance to ask questions.
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10. Don't be a switchblade.Normally the switchblade is thought of a backstabber, often taking credit for someone else's work.
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In an interview setting, the switchblade can't help but "trash talk" his former employer.
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